Gia l\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ec5 nghi theo t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nghi th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u lo\u1ea1i theo di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n qua sinh ho\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eed h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ef3 trong n\u0103m nh\u01b0 gi\u1ed7, t\u1ebft…c\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi c\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0: h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, tang ch\u1ebf, t\u1ebf l\u1ec5…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Khi \u0111\u00f4i trai g\u00e1i k\u1ebft duy\u00ean tr\u0103m n\u0103m v\u1edbi nhau g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n; h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p chung s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a trai v\u00e0 g\u00e1i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Gi\u00e1 th\u00fa; gi\u00e1 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u1ea3 ch\u1ed3ng, th\u00fa l\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u1ee3; gi\u00e1 th\u00fa n\u00f3i chung l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ef1ng v\u1ee3 g\u1ea3 ch\u1ed3ng cho trai g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trong th\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p thu\u1ed9c, t\u1edd Gi\u00e1 th\u00fa l\u00e0 gi\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn k\u1ebft h\u00f4n do ch\u00ednh quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf t\u1ea1i c\u1ea5p, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 l\u00e0ng x\u00e3. V\u1ec1 sau, v\u00e0o th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 50, t\u1edd ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ph\u00e1p l\u00fd n\u00e0y g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Gi\u1ea5y h\u00f4n th\u00fa, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 Gi\u1ea5y \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, do UBND ph\u01b0\u1eddng, x\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i nam n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5p gi\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd k\u1ebft h\u00f4n th\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1edbi h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u1ee3, c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 v\u1ee3, nh\u01b0 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi vi ph\u1ea1m ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt, vi ph\u1ea1m thu\u1ea7n phong m\u1ef9 t\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lu\u1eadt H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n & Gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1 52\/2014\/QH13, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Qu\u1ed1c h\u1ed9i N\u01b0\u1edbc C\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a Vi\u1ec7t Nam ban h\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y 19\/06\/2014 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y 01\/01\/2015 quy \u0111\u1ecbnh nam t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ee7 20 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf l\u00ean, n\u1eef t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ee7 18 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf l\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u00f4n do nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh vi d\u00e2n s\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb c\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u00e9p, l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i m\u00e0 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u1eb7t ra nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ec5 nghi trang tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc trong t\u00e2m kh\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u nghi th\u1ee9c thi\u00eang li\u00eang nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c \u00fd th\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a n\u1eb1m trong v\u00f2ng ki\u1ec1m t\u1ecfa che ch\u1edf c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt. ” V\u0103n C\u00f4ng gia l\u1ec5” do Chu Hi, \u0111\u1eddi T\u1ed1ng bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n v\u1edbi “L\u1ee5c l\u1ec5” m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i trinh nguy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0; gi\u1edbi s\u0129 phu, quan l\u1ea1i, nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ta c\u0169ng noi theo tinh th\u1ea7n \u1ea5y. L\u1ee5c l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. V\u1ea4N DANH<\/strong> (H\u1ecfi h\u1ecd, t\u00ean): \u0110\u00e0ng nh\u00e0 trai ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0y l\u00e0nh th\u00e1ng t\u1ed1t, nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi mai dong \u0111em tr\u1ea7u cau r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi t\u00ean tu\u1ed5i c\u00f9ng ng\u00e0y sinh, th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i mu\u1ed1n c\u01b0\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. N\u1ea0P C\u00c1T<\/strong> (L\u1ec5 \u0103n h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n): Nh\u00e0 trai \u0111\u00e3 coi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u1ebb t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i trai g\u00e1i, r\u1ed3i ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0y l\u00e0nh th\u00e1ng t\u1ed1t l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean r\u1eb1ng hai tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee3p, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh h\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Sau \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00e0 trai \u0111\u01b0a l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0ng ( c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bu\u1ed3ng cau, r\u01b0\u1ee3u tr\u1eafng, b\u00e1nh c\u1ed1m, xu x\u00ea… ( h\u00ecnh vu\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0\u01a1ng cho \u00e2m, h\u00ecnh tr\u00f2n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng cho d\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u0169ng bi\u1ec3u th\u1ecb cho nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t dung h\u00f2a, h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p nhau)) v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o cho nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i bi\u1ebft. Tr\u00e1p qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee7 v\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u1eb7c kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ecf do c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai tr\u1ebb, trang ph\u1ee5c ch\u1ec9nh t\u1ec1, mang tr\u00e1p qu\u1ea3 sang nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i. B\u00ean nh\u00e0 trai th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn b\u00ean nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 s\u1ed1 l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt. L\u1ec5 \u0111\u1eb7t t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng l\u00ean b\u00e0n th\u1edd nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i, khi nh\u00e0 trai ra v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i thu x\u1ebfp tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c tr\u00e1p qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ef1ng l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt v\u00e0 trong m\u1ed7i tr\u00e1p qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed7i th\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t \u00edt, g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 <l\u1ea1i qu\u1ea3> cho nh\u00e0 trai. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn l\u1ec5 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 b\u00e0 m\u1ed1i, m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c cha ch\u00fa r\u1ec3, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fa, b\u00e1c, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fa r\u1ec3. L\u1ec5 \u0103n h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. B\u00ean nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eddi b\u00e0 con th\u00e2n c\u1eadn nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ef1 v\u00e0 m\u1eddi c\u01a1m th\u00e2m m\u1eadt v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 trai. Sau l\u1ec5 \u0103n h\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i chia qu\u00e0 bi\u1ebfu cho h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, x\u00f3m gi\u1ec1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng: con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n, con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i s\u1eafp \u0111i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng. Sau l\u1ec5 \u0103n h\u1ecfi ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 con c\u00e1i trong nh\u00e0; ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u0103m h\u1ecfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u00ean nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i ( b\u00ean v\u1ee3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai), s\u0103n s\u00f3c khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0 \u1ed1m \u0111au, gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c khi nh\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, coi nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nho x\u01b0a g\u1ecdi ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3 l\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u00e0 : b\u00e1n t\u1eed chi t\u00ecnh ( t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 n\u1eefa con trai). Sau khi nh\u1eadn l\u1ec5 h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd t\u1ed9c 2 b\u00ean, ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u quen nhau c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i nam n\u1eef. NGHI L\u1ec4 VU QUY \u1ede B\u00caN H\u1ecc NH\u00c0 G\u00c1I<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u1ecd nh\u00e0 trai ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd t\u1ed1t, c\u1ee5 ch\u1ee7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e0 trai xin v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i cho r\u01b0\u1edbc d\u00e2u. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f4 d\u00e2u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u00f4 d\u00e2u ra \u0111i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang d\u1eb7n d\u00f2 th\u00eam m\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, d\u00fai cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f2ng h\u1edd sau n\u00e0y ti\u00eau d\u00f9ng \u1edf nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn d\u00fai v\u00e0o \u00e1o c\u00f4 d\u00e2u ch\u00edn chi\u1ebfc kim kh\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1eeb t\u00e0 v\u00e0 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a kim kh\u00e2u trong bu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u00f2ng hoa ch\u00fac. Kim n\u00e0y gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i c\u00e0i tr\u00e2m t\u00f3c theo quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Hoa x\u01b0a c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ecb ch\u1ee9ng \u201c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e3 phong\u201d m\u1ed9t b\u1ea5t tr\u1eafc trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f2ng s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng qu\u00e1 say m\u00e0 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y, m\u1eb7c m\u00e0y tr\u1eafng tr\u1ee3n, ng\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed9ng khi h\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ed1t ho\u1ea3ng m\u00e0 x\u00f4 l\u1eadt ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft ngay, m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i b\u00ecnh t\u1ec9nh l\u1ea5y tr\u00e2m c\u00e0i t\u00f3c hay kim nh\u1ecdn m\u00e0 ch\u00e2m v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1t x\u01b0\u01a1ng khu thu\u1ed9c trung t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n kinh kh\u00edch d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa s\u1ef1 t\u1eafc ngh\u1ebdn c\u1ee7a h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng th\u1ea7n kinh, cho m\u00e1u l\u01b0u th\u00f4ng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i; l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd h\u1ebft v\u00e0 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a. L\u1ec4 TH\u00c0NH H\u00d4N \u1ede B\u00caN H\u1ecc NH\u00c0 TRAI<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00f4n l\u1ec5 Vi\u1ec7t Nam ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a Chu C\u00f4ng l\u1ee5c l\u1ec5, v\u1ec1 sau c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n d\u1ea7n theo phong t\u1ee5c t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n v\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t; h\u00f4n l\u1ec5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u00ednh, d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 vui m\u1eebng, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, vun \u0111\u1eafp h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho \u0111\u00f4i trai g\u00e1i h\u01a1n, t\u00f9y theo ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn nghi th\u1ee9c ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/strong>; c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ebft th\u00f4ng gia c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, c\u00e2u n\u1ec7 theo ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc, gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u, l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn duy\u00ean ph\u1eadn, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. (Theo Gia l\u1ec5 x\u01b0a v\u00e0 nay c\u1ee7a Pham C\u00f4n S\u01a1n<\/em>) Gia l\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ec5 nghi theo t\u1eadp t\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nghi th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u lo\u1ea1i theo di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n qua sinh ho\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eed h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ef3 trong n\u0103m nh\u01b0 gi\u1ed7, t\u1ebft…c\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi c\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 trong […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1366","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-van-hoa-dong-ho"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1366","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1366"}],"version-history":[{"count":27,"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1366\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5371,"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1366\/revisions\/5371"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1366"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1366"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tocdangnonnuoc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1366"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
1. N\u1ea0P TH\u00c1I<\/strong> ( L\u1ec5 ch\u1ea1m ng\u00f5, xem m\u1eb7t): H\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a trai gi\u00e1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb chuy\u1ec7n “b\u1eaft m\u1ed1i” c\u1ee7a mai dong, b\u1eaft nh\u1ecbp c\u1ea7u l\u00e0m cho hai h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nhau r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e0ng trai s\u1eafm l\u1ec5 m\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0ng g\u00e1i nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi h\u1ecfi c\u01b0\u1edbi con g\u00e1i nh\u00e0 \u1ea5y. Tuy l\u00e0 l\u1ec5 nh\u01b0ng s\u01a1 s\u00e0i nh\u00e0 trai \u0111\u01b0a sang nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i v\u00e0i bao tr\u00e0, \u00edt tr\u1ea7u cau \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. Trong khi hai b\u00ean tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o cho c\u00f4 g\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u00ean nh\u00e0 trai \u01b0\u1edbm h\u1ecfi ra ch\u00e0o kh\u00e1ch, th\u01b0\u1eddng ra m\u1eddi tr\u1ea7u n\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f4 g\u00e1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i lui v\u1ec1 bu\u1ed3n ri\u00eang. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 d\u1ecbp ch\u00fa r\u1ec5 v\u00e0 c\u00f4 d\u00e2u t\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t nhau. Th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a L\u1ec5 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 trai xem gia c\u1ea3nh, gia phong c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i. Nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng nh\u1eadn L\u1ec5 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd, tuy nhi\u00ean L\u1ec5 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c hai b\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. TH\u1ec8NH K\u1ef2<\/strong>: \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ec5 m\u00e0 nh\u00e0 trai xin, h\u1ee9a c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o cho nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u00e0y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 xin nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i l\u1ef1a v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u00e0y th\u00edch h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. N\u1ea0P T\u1ec6<\/strong>: \u0110\u01b0a s\u00ednh l\u1ec5 t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i. Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt nh\u01b0 tr\u00e0, r\u01b0\u1ee3u, b\u00e1nh, n\u1eef trang cho c\u00f4 d\u00e2u t\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n c\u00f3 tr\u1ea7u cau, \u0111\u00e8n (n\u1ebfn) \u0111\u1ecf c\u00f3 ch\u1ea1m n\u1eafm long ph\u1ee5ng, c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n m\u1eb7t, ti\u1ec1n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0a cho nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i \u0111i ch\u1ee3, n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00e3i \u0111\u1eb1ng th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng quy\u1ebfn thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 h\u1ecd nh\u00e0 trai khi sang c\u1eed h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0 mua s\u1eafm th\u00eam v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho c\u00f4 d\u00e2u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang trai kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mua s\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. TH\u00c2N NGHINH<\/strong>: L\u1ec5 r\u01b0\u1edbc d\u00e2u v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 trai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L\u1ee5c l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb l\u00e2u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f2n c\u00e1c L\u1ec5 nh\u01b0 sau:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. L\u1ec4 D\u1ea0M<\/strong>: T\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ch\u1ea1m ng\u00f5, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a nghi th\u1ee9c N\u1ea1p th\u00e1i.L\u1ec5 d\u1ea1m ng\u00f5 ng\u00e0y nay, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 gi\u1eefa 2 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0 trai xin \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c cho \u0111\u00f4i nam, n\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do \u0111i l\u1ea1i, ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ec1m hi\u1ec3u nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt r\u01b0\u1eddm r\u00e0, ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00e0, m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat k\u1eb9o b\u00e1nh, hoa qu\u1ea3 cho ph\u1ea7n vui v\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u00e0y ti\u1ec7c \u0103n u\u1ed1ng trong l\u1ec5 n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 n\u01a1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i nam n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 quen bi\u1ebft nhau r\u1ed3i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. L\u1ec4 H\u1eceI<\/strong>: \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ec5 quan tr\u1ecdng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n; \u0111\u00f4i nam n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhau v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t (c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe…) th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau nhau, qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn nhau, th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi nhau trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a nhau. g\u1ed3m l\u1ec5 v\u1ea5n danh (xin l\u1ed9c m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 d\u00e2u), n\u1ea1p c\u00e1t, n\u1ea1p t\u1ec7, th\u1ec9nh k\u1ef3 (xin c\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh, ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1edbi); l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 tr\u00e0, r\u01b0\u1ee3u, b\u00e1nh, tr\u1ea7u c\u00e2u, nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p b\u00e1nh th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng l\u00e0 b\u00e1nh xu x\u00ea (t\u01b0\u1ee3ng trung cho \u00e2m) v\u00e0 b\u00e1nh c\u1ed1m (t\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0ng cho d\u01b0\u01a1ng) ho\u1eb7c b\u00e1nh ch\u01b0ng (vu\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u00e2m), b\u00e1nh d\u00e0y (tr\u00f2n l\u00e0 d\u01b0\u01a1ng) k\u00e8m theo qu\u1ea3 nem; \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ef1ng trong h\u1ed9p m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf, m\u00e0u ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ecf ch\u1ec9 s\u1ef1 vui m\u1eebng. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 l\u1ec5 \u0103n h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 trai mang t\u1edbi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ngay ng\u1eafn tr\u00ean tr\u00ean b\u00e0n \u1edf ph\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u00edt l\u00ean b\u00e0n th\u1edd gia ti\u00ean; khi l\u1ec5 h\u1ecfi xong, b\u00e1nh tr\u00e1i, cau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “l\u1ea1i qu\u1ea3” cho nh\u00e0 trai m\u1ed9t \u00edt, c\u00f2n nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 chia cho h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu (chia theo s\u1ed1 ch\u1eb3n nh\u01b0ng ki\u00eang hai qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ed1n tr\u1edf l\u00ean) nh\u1eb1m b\u00e1o tin l\u00e0 con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u0103n h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f4i trai g\u00e1i nghi\u1ec5m nhi\u00ean th\u00e0nh v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u01b0a c\u01b0\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. L\u1ec4 R\u01af\u1edaC D\u00c2U<\/strong>: hay vu quy \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 l\u1ec5 sau c\u00f9ng th\u00e2n nghinh trong L\u1ee5c l\u1ec5. Nh\u00e0 trai mang l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt r\u00ecnh rang t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i, l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, r\u1ed3i r\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4 d\u00e2u v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00ednh \u1edf nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 trai nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e1c ch\u00fa r\u1ec5 ph\u1ee5 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 b\u01b0ng l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u00e0nh h\u00e0ng l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3c trao m\u00e2m qu\u1ea3 tr\u00e1p l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 trai (c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef b\u00ean nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i nh\u1eadn) \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed3 l\u1ec5 l\u00ean b\u00e0n th\u1edd (b\u00e0n tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd). Nh\u00e0 trai c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i l\u1eddi tr\u00ecnh l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt : g\u1ed3m c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 g\u00ec. <\/li>
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e0 g\u00e1i xin ph\u00e9p m\u1edf tr\u00e1p hay kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ecf ngay sau l\u1eddi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 <\/li>
Ch\u00fa r\u1ec5 v\u00e0o b\u00e0n th\u1edd gia ti\u00ean nh\u00e0 v\u1ee3 b\u1ed1n l\u1ec5 r\u01b0\u1ee1i, sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 d\u00e2u c\u0169ng l\u1ec5 theo <\/li>
C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb Mi\u1ec1n B\u1eafc v\u00f4 Mi\u1ec1n Trung, khi \u0111\u01b0a d\u00e2u ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f4 d\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng \u0111i theo, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u1ed5i bu\u1ed3n chia c\u00e1ch n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong t\u1ed9c \u0111\u01b0a thay; \u1edf Mi\u1ec1n Nam c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2u n\u1ec7, c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng h\u01a1n, v\u00ec quan ni\u1ec7m l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y vui c\u1ee7a hai gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u tham d\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a r\u01b0\u1edbc. (Theo Gia l\u1ec5 X\u01b0a v\u00e0 nay c\u1ee7a Ph\u1ea1m C\u00f4n S\u01a1n, Nh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n thanh ni\u00ean)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a tr\u00e1nh l\u1ec5 nghinh h\u00f4n trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 c\u00f3 tang ho\u1eb7c b\u00ean trai, b\u00ean g\u00e1i; khi c\u00f3 tang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i m\u00e3n tang. Th\u1eddi gian ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i l\u00e2u n\u00ean c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi g\u1ea5p r\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 “ch\u1ea1y tang” th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1eed h\u00e0nh ngay khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh (\u00f4ng b\u00e0, n\u1ed9i ngo\u1ea1i cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean) \u0111ang h\u1ea5p h\u1ed1i hay l\u00e0 l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ph\u00e1t tang. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc d\u0129 m\u00e0 t\u1ee5c l\u1ec7 n\u01b0\u1edbc ta cho ph\u00e9p.
H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi; trai g\u00e1i l\u1ea5y nhau v\u00ec y\u00eau nhau, t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi nhau, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, chia s\u1ebb, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, l\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 vun tr\u1ed3ng n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng, n\u1ed1i d\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi sau nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 minh \u0111\u1ecbnh: “Ph\u1ed1i th\u1ea5t chi t\u1ebf, v\u1ea1n ph\u00fac chi nguy\u00ean<\/strong>“, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 Vi\u1ec7c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a mu\u00f4n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.\/.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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